Age Gap Relationships

[Lish]

dinangkur wrote:

precaution! A capitalist word. Actually, I don't how long I'm going to live. I've seen people taking precautions for their whole life to prepare for the moment but it never came. Some one lost their present time thinking about what will happen in future. But in some degree it's ok. But not in a large scale. I wonder what we acheive by taking precautions. In my personal life I always get into problems when I take precautions, LOL. Being in safe side, it's questionable. For you that situation can be safe side but may be not for me, then what you will say? Anyway, for me one rule "follow your heart and never give up" -DK

Precisely...to a certain degree...everything is ok.
You cant actually point your finger at anything & say its wrong.
Anything is possible & there are no guarantees.

And about precautions...walking at the sides of the road & not in the middle is taking precautions. The odds of you getting yourself killed at the side of the road is less than at the middle of the road.

I think you should follow your mind more than your heart.
If you follow your heart..you will be heartbroken.
_________________

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:
It Goes On..."

[dinangkur]

I'm willing to take the risk of heart broken. Mind has a limit but for heart no limits. That's I've learnt.

-Dinangkur
_________________
...we too are stardust...

[Lish]

dinangkur wrote:

I'm willing to take the risk of heart broken. Mind has a limit but for heart no limits. That's I've learnt. -Dinangkur

lolz
this is interesting.
Are you in love by any chance?

_________________

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:
It Goes On..."

[dinangkur]

Yep a long before with my Griska. Don't you know that. Do you know who is Griska?

My 1.7 GHz PC with 256 MB RAM, 40 GB hard disk with movable hard disk, 52x CD-ROM and has a beautiful creative sound system. I named her after most beautiful female hacker from russia.

-Dinangkur
_________________
...we too are stardust...

[Lish]

Gosh!
If you are talking about your computer...than no doubt...you are a computer geek!

_________________

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:
It Goes On..."

[OneDesign]

Hey Guys, I have a daugther who is 16 and she is dating a guy who is 19. see i dont have a problem with age diffrence in relationships but when its your own child it seems diffrent. any advice on this one?

[dinangkur]

Hi,

Can't say anything about that. I don't have any practical experience. As I'm still a single guy looking for a girl.

-Dinangkur
_________________
...we too are stardust...

[quantum]

In my opinion, 16 and 19 is very much acceptable. More so, when the Guy is the older person here. I think, it's almost preferable that the man is 3-5 years older than the woman. There is the question of maturity. In my opinion, women get mentally mature earlier than men. And also women loose their sexual urges earlier than men, usually around 50, I think. Just my 2cents here.
_________________

Dust fills my eyes / Clouds roll by / and I roll with them / Centuries cry / Orders fly / and I fall again
Afford best design, implement best solution. Outsource your web design.

[OneDesign]

yes i guess it is acceptable, see with me and my ex wife there was a 4 year age diffrence between us. but we where older and the diffrence wasn't really a problem. i guess its apart of growing up.