Age Gap Relationships

Lish

In recent years, the media has been highlighting relationships that have 5 or more years between a couple (Aston Kutcher and Demi Moore). A few questions to consider are: What are your opinions towards relationships 5, 10, 15 years in age difference? Is it more acceptable for a young woman to marry an older man, or a young man to marry a younger woman, or either? Is the age of the youngest in the relationship important (ie, age 18, 25, 30, or 35)?
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hasnatme

Well...I don't know what should be the age or is it really necessary or not. But onething I can make sure on my opinion and that is..it is only happen when two minds trying to understand each other and compromise the diffrent of them.
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dude

I think, a married couple should have 2-5 years of age difference. More than 5/6 years is too much normally.

naval_cow

Anything goes ....
I don't really mind age gaps, religious backgorund, or anything really ....
I don't suppose anybody does when they are thinking in terms of their emotions...
But really before marriage people should be using some brain toooo
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dinangkur

Anohter hot cake topic of Internet. Age gap relation - is there anything to talk about? People fall in love and they go on. Who cares about age, religion, color? But in reality most people do, they just don't understand at the first moment but they do understand when they need to commit more than ever. They back off. And so people talk about this relation on internet, books or TV. And people do love to put butter on it.

-DK

I wanna break the rules.
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hasnut · Expert User Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 201

Age difference doesn't matter.

Me and my wife's age difference is 7 Years. And our marriage is love marriage. Our Love life is 8 and half years.

We don't have any problem with understand each other.
we don't have problem in sexually,financially,emotionally and also with family.

But I am

when women 25 and men 65. women

men

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dinangkur

Here goes the example. Cheers to Hasnut.

-DK
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Lish

Hasnut is right in his own ways...but not everyone is as lucky as him. And by the way...sometimes things seem so perfect in the beginning but later on, they take a wrong turn & it can end up in divorce. I am just talking in general.

And i believe that man should be older than women...doesnt matter how much older. Women like to be taken care of & if the guy is younger than it would just be the opposite.
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dinangkur

I don't agree with you lish. There is nothing call absolute answer and situation like this anything can happen and you just don't know what could be that.

-Dinangkur
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Lish

I know that there is no absolute answers...thats why i said that Hasnut is lucky but not everyone can be as lucky as him. For some people age gap relationship might not work out. I am just saying that there is a possibility of it working out & also a possibility of it not working out. In the beginning, everything goes very smoothly...but there are cases of the realtionship breaking off after many years of their marriage.

If something has a good start..doesnt mean it would have a good ending as well.
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dinangkur

Lish as you say, "It goes on..." This is life. Sometimes it's bad, sometimes it's good. You just have to compromise sometimes to live, sometimes ignore it, sometimes die for it. As far as I believe don't look for result. Just do your karma.

-DK
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Lish

I know life has to go on no matter what. You have to do what you gotta do. I just believe in taking precautions. Just be on the safe side. Prepare for later. Prepare yourself for the consequences. Life is unpredictable. You cant be sure anything anything but no harm taking precautions, right..
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dinangkur

precaution! A capitalist word. Actually, I don't how long I'm going to live. I've seen people taking precautions for their whole life to prepare for the moment but it never came. Some one lost their present time thinking about what will happen in future. But in some degree it's ok. But not in a large scale. I wonder what we acheive by taking precautions. In my personal life I always get into problems when I take precautions, LOL. Being in safe side, it's questionable. For you that situation can be safe side but may be not for me, then what you will say? Anyway, for me one rule "follow your heart and never give up"

-DK
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Mastermind

dinangkur wrote:

Anyway, for me one rule "follow your heart and never give up"

A lil piece of advice mate... If your heart follows me

then please do try to give up !!!
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dinangkur

I wonder what did you try to mean? Mastermind the way you think...the way i think is very much different. So, my advice stop giving advice. By the way, welcome back and I like the way, you talk, I missed it. After kiddo talking sometimes refresh the geeks mind

when it's too ugly to think about geek stuff. Be cool and don't worry.

-DK

p.s. Explain what you want to mean? I hope you're not talking about gay thingy,

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